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Office gossips beware – chitchat could choke your career chances

(2024/01/11)


If you're the type of office blabbermouth who loves to stand at the water cooler and tell anyone who'll listen that Pete in accounts has bad breath, or John and Jill in tech are sleeping together, don't expect a promotion anytime soon.

Gossiping at work is really bad for your career, or so say boffins at Durham University Business School (DUBS) and NEOMA Business School (NBS), which took views from hundreds of participants on the tattletales they've encountered.

The study found that gossipers are "frowned upon" by fellow colleagues, they can become "socially excluded" at work, and can find their promotion prospects dented. It also discovered that women had more negative views of indiscreet people than men.

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Dr Maria Kakarike, associate professor of organizational behavior and leadership at DUBS, and Dr Shiva Taghavi and Dr Helena González-Gómez, associate professors of organizational behavior, considered employees' responses to workplace gossip, how the talebearer was perceived afterwards, and if this had implications for career progression or social standing.

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Three studies were created. In the first, nearly 200 people from different organizations were given a workplace scenario that involved a colleague who was either blabbing about rumors or not. The group were then asked to give their view on the morality of it.

In the second study, the researcher manipulated the gender of the gossiper and conducted the same experiment with 500 people, also measuring behavioral reactions to the person spreading the muck. The final part saw another 200 quizzed about gossip that they'd experienced in the workplace. They were asked to describe the events and disclose their feelings about the gossiper.

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The three associate professors found the respondents had negative sentiments toward rumor mongers, and would remove them from social media groups, share less information, and in some instances not talk to them again. The participants were also far more likely to rate gossipers' performance at work more lowly, recommend bonus reductions, or "even impede their potential promotions."

"Gossiping is pretty commonplace in all workplaces," said Dr Kakarika. "Whether it's a small comment about someone's work, or something more personal and less work-related, we've all engaged in it either through gossiping ourselves or hearing someone gossip.

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"But it is highly likely that gossiping can be reduced in the workplace if people were aware that it says much about the gossiper too rather than only about the person they are gossiping about. This workplace gossiping can have real negative impacts on their career progression."

The Reg relies on chatty people in the industry opening up to give us the inside track on things, and we promise not to judge you. Yet with fewer people working in offices, we can't help but wonder how the gossips get their fix these days. Oh, of course, social media! ®

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GDPR

elsergiovolador

If your gossip contains PII and you broadcast information without consent you are breaking the law.

Not that anyone cares though.

Re: GDPR

Gene Cash

Isn't that the very definition of gossip?

Re: GDPR

NoneSuch

No, that's "juicy" gossip.

II always remind my staff

Anonymous Coward

that working in IT is a privilege that brings you into contact with very sensitive data. From knowing who's getting the chop before even they do, to company performance, and salary details if you end up having to fix a PC with a spreadsheet open.

Eyes and ears open. Mouth closed is the mantra.

Re: II always remind my staff

seven of five

T-Shirt front: "I could read your email."

T-Shirt back: "But I'd never be bored enough to actually do so."

As pointless as going through paychecks - This would only frustrate the reader.

Anonymous Coward

Depends on the gossip?

If it's inane, personal stuff, I don't pay it any heed. Not my business, so I don't care. But if I overhear someone planning to do something stupid (for example, gzip a live production database because it can save some work rather than adding more space), then I might say something.....

Makes me wonder though, some companies operate a code of business conduct - I wonder what the obligation is to report gossip that suggests a violation of that code?

Doctor Syntax

John and Jill in tech are sleeping together

Newbie, excited to have discovered a scandal: "Have you noticed that $HIM and $HER always leave together."

"Well, they are married."

Anonymous Coward

My parents worked in different parts of a hospital

It took people 6 years to notice they were married!

Believing office gossip....

Marty McFly

Being the little bastard that I can be and welcoming the new guy to the team... I told him one of our handsome, older peers was 'player' and was having an affair with a gal over in Sales. So new guy watches and observes. Co-worker & sales gal worked different shifts so drove different cars. But they would leave for lunch together and didn't hesitate to show affection.

Newbie, who was rather straight-laced and a closet Bible thumper, decided to confront the co-worker about it with the expected result.... "Dude, did you see her last name? She is my wife!"

This was 20 years ago when we all had a good sense of humor and could laugh together. And with that, the new guy was properly initiated to the team - and learned a valuable lesson about office gossip!

Top notch investigation

A. Coatsworth

Glad to see these business schools boldly tackling such groundbeaking subjects. Great formation for the MBAs of the future!

Any developments on Pope Francis' religious views, or on the bowel movements of ursids?

File It Away

TheBruce

Never know when a secret can help come promotion time.

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